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Resource Basket for Families, Victims & Survivors

In this basket, you will find resources to help when a loved one goes missing. Resources cover searching for a loved one, engaging with law enforcement, obtaining legal and financial assistance, and finding emotional and community support.

At any point during the search, national hotlines can offer emotional support and guidance over the phone and via chat services. Most hotlines are confidential and anonymous.

 

National Resources  
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children 800-THE-LOST (843-5678)
National Runaway Safeline 800-RUNAWAY (786-2929)
National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs) 833-872-5176
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 800-273-8255
National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-SAFE (7233); TTY: 800-787-3224
StrongHearts Native Helpline (for domestic, dating and sexual violence) 844-7NATIVE (762-8483)
National Human Trafficking Hotline 888-373-7888; TTY: 711; Text HELP or INFO to 233733
National Parent Helpline 855-4A-PARENT (855-427-2736)
BIA Missing and Murdered Unit 833-560-2065; Text BIAMMU and your tip to 847411
Sexual Assault Hotline 800-656-HOPE (4673)
Teen Dating Abuse Helpline 866-331-9474; TTY: 866-331-8453; Text LOVEIS to 22522
VictimConnect  Hotline: 855-4-VICTIM (484-2846)

 

Here are a list of free resources and easily accessible reporting centers for family and loved ones who are searching for a missing loved one.

When someone “goes missing” it does not necessarily mean a crime has been committed. Until a law enforcement investigation is conducted, it may not be clear if an individual is in danger. This is why it’s critical for law enforcement to take a report on every missing person.

It’s also important to consider if a disappearance could be voluntary. Disconnecting from family, friends and community is a dramatic and life-changing decision and does not happen without significant reasons, which could include preventing abuse to the individual or immediate family members.

Missing Child

When a child under 18 years old disappears, dial 911 or contact tribal law enforcement immediately. The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children at 1-800-THE-LOST offers many resources to help families when a child goes missing.

General Resources

Law enforcement agencies will differ from Tribe to Tribe and sometimes multiple agencies will be involved. This might include Tribal law enforcement, the Bureau of Indian Affairs, the FBI, local city/county police, and, in Alaska, the village public safety officer and state trooper — or a combination of these agencies. Based on circumstances, it may be helpful to notify Tribal law enforcement in the home community of the missing individual.

Law enforcement agencies will differ from Tribe to Tribe and sometimes multiple agencies will be involved. This might include Tribal law enforcement, the Bureau of Indian Affairs, the FBI, local city/county police, and in Alaska the village public safety officer and state trooper — or a combination of these agencies. Based on circumstances, it may be helpful to notify Tribal law enforcement in the home community of the missing individual.

  • Tips concerning a missing indigenous person or homicide in Indian Country can be submitted to the Bureau of Indian Affairs’ Missing & Murdered Unit via email or to the tip line at 833-560-2065. The tip line is confidential, toll free and available 24/7.
  • The TIP 411 program allows you to send anonymous tips to the Bureau of Indian Affairs. To send a tip to the Missing & Murdered Unit, text “BIAMMU” and your tip to 847411.
  • The National Crime Information Center (NCIC) Missing Person File Fact Sheet from Operation Lady Justice explains the Missing Person File, which draws data from over 18,000 federal, state, local, Tribal and territorial criminal justice agencies from all 50 states, U.S. territories
  • All states receive federal funding to help support local victim assistance and compensation programs. There are also nongovernmental organizations that provide resources and services to crime victims.
  • The Directory of Crime Victim Services is a searchable tool with information about available victim services throughout the country, maintained by the U.S. Dept. of Justice, Office for Victims of Crime. OVC also provides information about victim assistance and compensation programs available across the U.S.
  • The National Association of Crime Victims Compensation Boards provides links to the state crime victim compensation programs. You can find specific information about each program's benefits, requirements and procedures by clicking on the links.
  • Local legal aid services may be able to assist families with navigating the financial affairs and estate of a missing person. Search LawHelp.org for legal aid programs by state.
  • The National Crime Victim Bar Association provides information for crime victims on pursuing justice through civil lawsuits, including an attorney referral service.

There are a range of support services and guidance available for victims, survivors and loved ones, including information about victims’ rights. Services for crime victims should be free of charge. Keep in mind that not all victims and survivors will need the same level of support: Generally, the type and intensity of harm experienced will influence the level of support needed. Some victims may need limited support, while others may need more. And remember, each person’s experience of a loved one’s disappearance is unique.

Immediate Resources

  • StrongHearts Native Helpline is a 24/7 safe, confidential and anonymous domestic, dating and sexual violence helpline. Call, text or chat online to receive support. 844-7NATIVE (762-8483).
  • National Center for Missing & Exploited Children — the central reporting center for missing children in the U.S. — has a 24/7 hotline and resources for families. 800-THE-LOST (843-5678).
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 and has resources on identifying abuse, getting help, safety planning and supporting others. Call, text or chat online to receive support. 800-799-SAFE (7233); TTY: 800-787-3224; or text START to 88788.
  • National Human Trafficking Hotline offers services and support to victims of human trafficking. Call 888-373-7888; TTY: 711; or text HELP or INFO to 233733.
  • National Parent Helpline has information, resources and trained advocates who can provide advice and emotional support for parents on weekdays. 855-4A-PARENT (855-427-2736).
  • National Runaway Safeline is a 24/7 hotline for youth in crisis aged 12-21 and their families. Call, chat or email to receive support. 800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).
  • National Sexual Assault Hotline is available 24/7 to support survivors and loved ones. Call or chat online for support, or download the RAINN app. 800-656-HOPE (4673).
  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline hotline is available 24/7 and has resources specific to AI/AN individuals. Call or chat online to receive support. 800-273-8255.
  • Teen Dating Abuse Helpline is available 24/7 with support, education and advocacy for teens, young adults and families. Call, text or chat online. 866-331-9474; TTY: 866-331-8453; text LOVEIS to 22522.

Short-Term Resources

  • The Tribal Resource Tool is a searchable directory of services available for AI/AN survivors of crime and abuse in Indian Country.
  • BIA’s Victim Assistance Program provides information on crisis intervention, referrals and information on specialized resources for victims of crime.
  • The VictimConnect resource center is a place for victims to learn about their rights and options confidentially and compassionately. Call or text 855-484-2846.
  • The Crime of Family Abduction is a publication with perspectives from survivors who had been abducted as children and parents whose children had been abducted, from the U.S. Dept. of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention.
  • What About Me? is a guide to support children who have experienced the abduction of a sibling or friend, from the U.S. Dept. of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention. (Spanish version)

Long-Term Resources

Addressing the reality of missing and murdered American Indians and Alaska Natives is difficult and can create high levels of stress. Staying connected to and drawing support from your Tribal community can help.

    Updated April 18, 2023